We are sure that if you are on this page, there is a smile across your face, brought about our absolutely adorable tots. Congratulations to our October winners! We are also quite certain that many of our readers know of potential Tint Tots Corner stars. Should you fancy your little cherub, or another you know as a possible winner, there are few rules to keep in mind. Please read the rules in the blue “Competition Rules” box below, then send us those amazing snaps! Good luck!!
Competition Rules
- The Editor’s decision is final.
- This competition is open to all babies, between the ages of six and 24 months, who live in the Laudium Sun main distribution area.
- Closing date: Tuesday, November 17. Entries must include a recent, clear photo of your baby, accompanied by the full name and age of infant, and also parents’ names and addresses…as well as contact numbers.
- All entries must be hand-delivered to the Laudium Sun office in Laudium or e-mailed to: info@laudiumsun.co.za or posted to: PO Box 786, Pretoria, 0001, and are to reach us before the closing date
How to discipline a toddler?
Part 3
- Explain Consequences
Consequences are responses following behavior and can be positive or negative. Fair consequences following an action help your child distinguish right from wrong and thus need to be prompt. These can be decided based on the child’s behavior; for example, you can add an extra chore to your child’s list or reduce a bedtime story if they purposely skipped all assignments for the day. Age-appropriate consequences and their explanation help children understand the need for corrective measures and ensure self-regulation. Role-playing helps toddlers learn about consequences. Acting out situations allows parents to teach appropriate responses in a fun and engaging way. - Set Clear Expectations
Children need to understand what part they play in the family dynamics and thus may either overly indulge or under-participate in the household. Therefore, it is essential to provide your child with clear rules and realistic goals for them to achieve. For example, packing their colors after they are done painting, not running down the stairs, or putting their toys in place are clear indicators of what is expected of them. However, it is vital for parents to also adhere to a set of boundaries to present their children with appropriate examples. - Provide Choices
Children expect a certain level of freedom and independence as soon as they begin exploring and may throw temper tantrums when they feel restricted or bossed around. Giving your child the flexibility of choices ensures they do not engage in a power struggle with you. Children need to be able to choose regularly to feel in control of their lives and gain self-confidence. These small decisions, such as what they would like to eat or wear for the day, goes a long way in helping them make appropriate decisions later in life. - Acknowledge Feelings
Toddlers have underdeveloped feelings and are just learning to cope with big emotions. However, they cannot label or express their feelings entirely, which can often frustrate them, leading to fussiness and irritation. It is crucial for children to feel seen and heard whenever they get overwhelmed by their feelings. Thus, as a parent, you must offer them a safe space to express themselves whenever they feel like complaining and ask the right questions to help them label their emotions. - Point to Consider
Including soothing techniques such as singing, walking, a quick jog, hugging, or dancing can help a child calm down and express their feelings more clearly.
*If in any doubt, please consult with your healthcare provider